Pre-81: Clean up unnecessary tool declarations and package includes

[JasonVMo]

Platforms Impacted

-all

Description of changes

This is part of the 81 changes I'm splitting out to reduce the diffs. This reduces the dependencies, cleans up usage of jest/babel configs where they aren't needed, converts more things to catalogs (including added the 0.73, 0.74, 0.78, and 0.81 catalogs from rnx-kit). Probably the most subtle change is that the @fluentui-react-native/babel-config now has @react-native/babel-preset as a peer dependency so that it can be used by different versions in the same repo.

On the tooling side the furn align-deps preset has added some functionality by modifying the core profiles:

• added more tool capabilities, including ones that automatically manage the babel config workspace
• removed metro config and community cli from the core capability. This is needed for apps (which we have 3 of) but not for libraries, which we have like 70 of.
• added 'core-dev-only', 'core-windows-dev-only', etc. capabilities for packages which only use react-native for test code. This avoids unnecessary peer dependency declarations.
• added @types/react and @types/react-test-renderer to management under the 'react' and 'react-test-renderer' capability respectively.

Note: you can't really use align-deps to route to the capabilities yet, I tried rewriting the version numbers but that messes up the resolution logic for peer dependencies. I'll likely make an rnx-kit change at some point.